This is how you can load all crosssell products of a product:
$crossSellProducts = $product->getCrossSellProductCollection()
->addAttributeToSelect(Mage::getSingleton('catalog/config')
->getProductAttributes())
->setPositionOrder()->addStoreFilter();
Loading all crosssell products of a product
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